Ariana Grande in a since-then deleted Tweet mentioned her current partner\u2019s penis size which spun the remark of Pete Davidson having big dick energy from one of Grande\u2019s followers. BDE will go down as the most memorable event of the year or at least for the month of July.<\/span><\/p>\n So who has \u201cBig Dick Energy?\u201d Well, the internet will convince you of celebrities such as Rihanna, Cardi B, and Beyonce having this male-ego-driven energy. It is now going beyond the male gender to empower women. However, some people aren\u2019t really into this super-emasculating term.<\/span><\/p>\n New York-born author and poet, Charlotte Seley<\/a> says, \u201c<\/span>Big dick energy is a misnomer \u2014 it is a heteronormative idea that speaks to fantasy men have that doesn\u2019t even add up to women\u2019s expectations of their genitals. Women don\u2019t necessarily want a big dick.\u201d She continues, \u201cIf they are into people who have penises, they want one that fits right and feels good.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n Times are definitely changing though. Big Dick Energy used to be considered driving the latest and greatest convertible with whispers of overcompensation. BDE was having the Charizard Pokemon card back in grade school. Big Dick Energy was being considered a playboy jock.<\/span><\/p>\n Now Big Dick Energy means, \u201cfuck you pay me\u201d (equality for gender pay gaps). It means \u201cbitch better have my money.\u201d BDE means commanding the front cover of magazines as women of color. <\/span><\/p>\n Rachel Hoisie for the Independent<\/a> writes, \u201c<\/span>BDE is something you either have, or you don\u2019t. It\u2019s a quiet assurance that in some starts from birth and in others develops over time. But the crucial factor is it\u2019s low-key.\u201d\u00a0<\/span>She is perfectly right. It is always in a person\u2019s best interest to be confident. Confidence is key and should never be confused with cockiness or arrogance, but just the aura you give off. <\/span><\/p>\n This type of behavior could be harmful in the relationship. It can also be beneficial. For example, if you, as a man, feel comfortable bending gender normative roles in your relationship to better yourself and your partner, this is big dick energy. However, if you, as a man, feel the need to reinforce gender stereotypes in your relationship, this is Big Dick Energy to most, but could prove detrimental to your relationship with your significant other. <\/span><\/p>\n While I focused on the men in the relationship in my aforementioned example, here lies the problem. What about people who do not conform to gender roles? What about women who are not heterosexual? As Charlotte put it in our conversation, \u201c<\/span>I wonder why it has to be that way and instead nod to something that gives all genders, binary and non-binary, a way to say \u2018you\u2019ve got it without flaunting it.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n Would men feel comfortable stating they have Pussy Power Privilege? Nice Boob Aura? It is time to move the conversation beyond physical attributes and focus more on what really matters like how we treat other people. It is time to live better and be better.<\/span> BIG DICK ENERGY BDE stands for Big Dick Energy. The internet can\u2019t decide if it is referring to the well-endowed or if it is a genderless term, meaning exuding confidence that women can also possess. 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